The greatest threat to our community and culture is the shocking religious conversion ( many times forced or lured by money) to Christianity.
#Badaga marriage rules how to#
I agree with you that we have lots to discuss about how to save our community. What statements/comments should appear in my website will be decided by me. Anand has given a clear statement …… while we have lots to discuss about how to save our community. One change will open the way for another change and then so on,then one final day our community will disappear and I totally disagree with what is posted.May be its an openion but to be a Badaga ” Save our Culture ” that is the great honour that we do to our community.Even after several we can shoot up the statement that ” I’m a proud Badaga”. World is like a mirror, we get what we give.Ī Culture is to be a culture only when it has an unique characteristics in it. Spread love and respect, it will reflect on us. don’t condition and restrict it to ourselves. Unconditional love will prevail in this world. ….no body encourages because, everybody thinks somebody will ill treat them and anybody could question them. We need to change, at least for the kind of global movement of our people, culture is something we have in our heart and what we follow and not in choosing a soul mate. Its only fear that is prevailing and narrow thoughts, which we have to overcome.
Those cultures who have tried to be closed have depleted soon. Inter state, and inter caste marriages have enriched lot of cultures since history. Who on earth or any community for that matter devoid a child from parents just because they chose their partners. Also, the person who has done inter-caste marriage is treated as if the parents are no more their parents. Main problem is not that the parents are opposing, but if the parents accept such marriages, their final rituals face lot of issues in our community. Keep faith and culture within and let it nurish. Why don’t we all just go back to our hatti and do agriculture and grace cows instead of using computers for any matter? We have grown because we have adapted. Are we not learning English to survive? Does it mean we forgot Badagu?įor people who are so strict about not adapting, should keep it to themselves and not impose on others.
Do we, especially the elders in the community, need to change our mind set? Is it not time to change with the 'changing times'? - Wg Cdr JPĬulture is something that one adapts. There is plenty of truth in what Narmu says. This topic, in my opinion, needs our urgent attention. Editing or deletion of comments is at the discretion of the author/editor- Wg Cdr JP) You may agree or NOT agree with the views of some but harsh comments/ posts will not be approved/published. (Please note: This website encourages all shades of opinions from viewers. Any one who comes across this post, dont mistake me, its just my views". In today's trends both the men and women are matured enough to choose their spouse. My view is that the parents ego plays a vital role. They even accept when our boy marries a non-Badaga girl, but they really don't accept when our girl marries with a non-Badaga boy. Our people are very loving, caring and are with humanity to a great extent except when it comes to inter caste marriage.
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